Excentricus Caelestis

The Latin language, as it was historically used, does not have a direct equivalent for the modern term "queer," which is used in contemporary contexts to describe sexual and gender identities that are not heteronormative. The vocabulary of classical Latin, as used in ancient Rome, reflected the social and cultural norms of its time, which were significantly different from today's understandings of gender and sexuality.

However, it's important to note that the ways in which gender and sexuality were understood and expressed in ancient Rome were complex and varied. While there might not be a direct equivalent for "queer," Latin had its own set of terms and concepts related to gender and sexual behaviors, though these don't map neatly onto modern concepts.

In modern academic or inclusive Latin, new terms are often created or adapted to express concepts that did not exist in classical Latin. It's possible that contemporary Latin speakers or scholars might use a neologism or an adapted term to express the concept of "queer." However, such adaptations would be a modern development and not part of classical Latin vocabulary.

One possible adaptation for "queer" in the sense of LGBTQ+ identities might be the use of the word "excentricus," which can mean 'out of the ordinary' or 'unconventional'. This is a modern coinage and not classical usage.

The Latin language is flexible in the sense that it allows for the creation of new terms by combining existing words to convey new concepts. If you wish to create a term that encapsulates the idea of a revered and distinctive form of love shared between gay men, which is appreciated on a deeply personal and perhaps spiritual level, you might consider a neologism—a newly coined term or expression.

For instance, "excentricus" suggests something out of the ordinary or unconventional. To add a sense of reverence or sacredness to this term, you might pair it with a word like "caelestis," meaning heavenly or celestial. So, a possible combination could be "excentricus caelestis," which could be interpreted as "unconventional heavenly" or "extraordinary celestial," aiming to reflect the unique heaven found in gay relationships as you've described.

Please note that this is an entirely modern creation and would not be understood in the context of classical Latin, but it is an example of how one might use the flexibility of language to craft expressions that resonate with contemporary experiences and values.